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Nice, Visit MRC Laboratory of Molecular Biology, Cambridge, UK.

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It's unfortunate that you had to go through the pain and suffering to be able to write such a truely wonderful letter. Right now, I am in a similar situation--having married a wonderful 35 years old woman from Spain. However, what I thought was Anorexia Nervosa over the last two years of our relationship... well, I am convinced that it is BPD. She has all the characteristics--and many parts of your letter could apply to our situation. She's currently back in Spain, and more than likely won't return--preferring to blame me as she has done nothing for two years but blame her parents and all other people. I love her--but there does come a time, even for the toughest of ex-Marines and ex-cops, such as myself, when "enough is enough." Thanks for allowing me to read the letter. It was nice to know that I have not been the only one to go through hell--and to have somehow kept my sanity, when there were times when I thought it was in question. Best of luck to you. - Steven

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I know nothing about BPD except what I have learned (the last few days) in my local book store, and on the BPD Central website. However, I am convinced that my girlfriend suffers from BPD, although she has not been diagnosed as such. She has, however, (as I learned after I was already very in love with her) been previously diagnosed with an eating disorder, major depression, and anxiety. Additionally, it is my uneducated opinion that she is afflicted with a social phobia(s)/disorder(s) as well. My girlfriend is in therapy, but I have not heard any mention of BPD from either my girlfriend, or her therapist -and I am very concerned that the proper diagnosis has not been made, nor that the proper treatment is being administered. Furthermore, and selfishly, I feel like I may be doomed to a life of pain and suffering (emotional) at the hand of the woman who loves me, and who seemingly has no idea of the pain she causes me. HELP! ...please? Stephen Carter

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Just looking for a little hope.

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After trying for months to leave my BPD lover, I finally gained distance from his destructive behaviour, suicide threats and cruelty. However, He persisted in mailing me with pleas to stay together,(I hate you, don't leave me) he missed me, we can make it work etc. Well, I gave into this, offered to listen and negotiate towards reconciliation and Kooghan turned on me in typical BPD fashion and sadistically told me to forget about him, He was fine. Whatever BPD is, it brings pain to anyone who is around it. My advice to someone involved with a BP is run away and don't turn around. Ever.

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Barbara, It's been kinda slow here since you posted :-) How are you doing?

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I HAVE BEEN LOST,VERY MUCH ALONE AND TERRIFIED. I THINK I HAVE FOUND A SHELTER...