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I seriously feel like laughing right now.. I have been going through this webpage and reading..and then i read a bit of your letter..and i didn't read to read any more.. I CAN"T BELIEVE WE GO THROUGH THIS. Your letter is an exact replica of what I have been dealing with since i was 17 years old (I am almost 23 now)..wow.. we recently broke up again and i feel like i don't know what to do with myself.. again..cause i feel crazy, confused with what i could have done better..and why everyone seems to be better then me now.. and in the past two days from reading this information..i have never felt so great..or secure about who i am as a person...Of course i knew i was great, and tried hard to make others happy..but when someone is constantly doing this to you.. as you know..it's so easy to get confused about who you are as a person.. I am greatful people are out there (but sad they had to go through things i have been through).. I am hopeful that this will get better for me..and I will be able to move on.. and have the same feelings i have for him..but for someone who respects and treats me the way i should be treated. My love isn't supossed to be an effort! I wish you all good luck!

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Your story almost mimicks what I have been through for 5 years. I could literally change names and locations or diff. activities and it would be a mirror of my life for half a decade. Thank you so much. You changed my life today. So many weights have been lifted off of me. My ex was a man with borderline personality disorder and honestly I thought I was crazy. Your letter sounds like so many emails I wrote to him and got no reponses for or none of any worth. From the bottom of my heart thank you.

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Great letter. For a year she wanted to date me. I gave it a try. I am tired. I wrote her a letter yesterday basically saying I am moving on yet left the door open with boundaries. It would surprise me if she responds in a mature way.

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My husband of nearly 20 years has BPD. I'm desperate to find healing and strength to continue.

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I didn't know that I was living with someone with BPD. After research (military papers - acute psych unit info at worksite), learned I too am BPD. In therapy for years. Was on meds in 2004 - off due to adverse effects. Now using cognitive behavior therapy.

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wife seems to have bpd

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Cheers to webmaster, but I would prefer dark blue color theme... it's not that I have any relations with gays (nor do I disapprove of them), just like the color. And yeah, recently I discovered a nice little trick of preventing almost all kinds of spam, and that's a double requirement for verification, the second comes after the post is submitted... well it's up to you whether to immlement it or not. Good luck to y'all! Sincerely yours, Paula from Luxembourg.