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Wow. It feels better to know there are other people who have dealt with what I'm still dealing with. I was engaged to a BP. She became pregnant a month after the engagement because she stopped taking birth control without telling me. When my response was to be somewhat hurt and upset that apparently I wasn't important enough to be made part of the decision to have a child, she ended the relationship and despite the fact she ended it blames me for everything and accused me of walking out on my family. I now have a 11 month old son. He is my greatest joy, yet it is very painful at the same time because I do not live with him and only see him 3 or 4 times a week. This is not how I planned on fatherhood being. This is not what I planned for my life. But this is what you get with a BP.

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My God !! This is just scary ! So recognizable. It took me about 1 month to find out my ex had BL (at extreme level!) and then another 6 months to get rid of her - and all the horror and stress... In the meantime trying to persuade her to seek counseling, to no avail. So she'll most likely end up in some nuthouse. - I couldn't care less :o) - Found the love of my life 2 months later. Gasp! > A NORMAL sane person. Regards , Vince

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Thank You.

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Your "Oz" story has given me some excellent insights into my own troubled relationship with a former girlfriend. Thanks for being willing to share the painful details in order to help others.

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I male 50 and have lived with a borderline wife for 28 years and recently just figured it out. I'm going to try to publish a book that could benefit other men. I have been researching this area for quite some time. I know much more than my own therapist about BPD. 28 years of experience is nothing to brag about.

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Hi, I haven't finished all of your letter yet, but it is very eye-opening for me. I hope you are healed and well.