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Thank you so much for publishing this on line. I have had a very similar experience and can identify with so much of yours, its very affirming to know that this bpd is a very real and devestating condition to be in contact with. As a recovering non I still need to remind myself daily that i am o.k. and I have had a very painful trip into a land (OZ) i do not wish to inhabit. It meant giving up someone I loved very much for my own survival. Your letter has given me further insight into this distressing condition and my own need to stay away from my bpd ex lover.

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This site was so informative. Thank you, very much! I needed info on BPD for an oral presentation in my psycholgy class. I first heard of BPD when I read, "Girl Interrupted" by Suzanna Kaysen. I was really fascinated and chose it as my presentation and thesis project. Anyway, thanks so much!

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Thank you so much for sharing all you went thru. I got out of a similar relationship 2 years ago, now I have had BP experiences with a close friend, was going to be roomate-cancelled that idea.well only after she threatened to kill another friend of mine. Thank You again, for helping me recognise the insanity of my situation. best wishes, I am glad you are well and Happy

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wow, thanks for sharing your letter! my bpd girlfriend just left me and i can really relate to your writing. it helps a lot. best of luck in all you do.

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As the sister of a Non-BP, I am stricken at the extent of emotional abuse and danger my beloved sister, niece and nephew endured, and as a truly beaten down Non, at how successfully she's kept years of verbal, emotional and physical abuse to herself, believing that she was somehow responsible for the behavior of her BPSO. The brainwashing, the control, the irrationality we are becoming aware of --- we thought his intense drive to 'win', his inability/unwillingness to accept or even acknowledge the rights of others to an opinion (he was always 'right')---meant he was just a "strange duck." We now realize that our brother-in-law is diagnosably ill. Thank you for your courage in telling a hellish tale. When we get our sister, niece and nephew situated, we will try to help our (soon to be ex-) brother-in-law, who evidently needs more than he understands. God bless you and keep you.

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Appreciate the insights...I have a long way to understanding my spouse (BPD who has not been told yet) and not sure how to handle day to day interactions but your info has been a great starting point...Thank-You.

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Would like to know about your site. Reading the book "Stop Walking on Eggshells" right now.